This began as ten things that make me grumpy, but I kept adding to it. I thougt if I wrote them down, it'd make me feel better.
When I forget to put the coffee into the coffeemaker.This is my fault, totally. I make my coffee before I go to bed so I can just turn it on in the morning. Then I let my dogs out and the coffee is ready by the time they’re all done with tinkle-time. Unless … I’ve forgotten to put the coffee into the filter. It doesn’t happen often, but it’s truly irritating and there is only one person I can be irritated with myself. I really prefer being irritated with someone else. :o)
People who honk their car horn early in the morning.Have a little consideration for your neighbors. I get up early so they’re not going to wake me up but it’s such a lack of consideration for others. Nowadays everyone has a cell phone so call the person you’re going to pick up and let them know you’re in front of their house. Or, get your lazy ass out of the car and go up and knock on the door.
And, for those who are expecting someone to pick them up, be ready on-time so you can run out the door and there’s no honking needed.
People who do yard work with noisy equipment too early in the morning.I do understand that it gets very hot later in the mornings and in the afternoons. But, you can mow and edge your lawn later than 6 a.m.
Again, I’m up early, they don’t wake me up but I do groan thinking about how thoughtless and inconsiderate they are.
Litterbugs.Is that expression still used? The other day I was driving along a beautiful stretch of desert road. Messing up the view and the beauty was someone’s old sofa and love seat tossed out on the shoulder of the road.
What are they thinking?
It’s required that everyone in my area have trash service. There isn’t a way to cheat it. You can call them a day or so ahead of your regularly scheduled trash day to request a pick-up on your trash day. I wish there were a way to find these people and make them have to live with the trash they’ve thrown out forever. Harsh - yes. Impossible - yes.
People who drive too fast.Why does everyone have to drive 90 mph? It seems that way.
What’s really pathetic is that these are the same people who scream that they have to pay too much for gas. Yes, gas prices are high - but take your lead foot off the gas and you’ll save a bundle. Plus you’ll be safer and so will others.
People who ride on the tail of the car in front of them. This probably doesn’t make a Hummer or huge SUV driver grumpy. But it surely does when you drive a very small car. Seeing your bumper practically over my back window - does have a tendency to really rile me. Back off. Again … does the word “considerate” mean anything?
T.V. shows that have someone’s “statement” written into the script.I watch TV. programs primarily for entertainment purposes.
If I want to know the news of the day or listen to “experts” discuss the world, then I turn on a news program. I do NOT want to watch a show like Boston Legal only to have someone’s ideas and views thrown in as a speech given by one of the show’s lawyers. James Spader has had several scripts that have done this. One program had him telling everyone in a jury summation that if the word “mart” is in a place where you shop, then you need to stop going there. Huh?
Kids screaming in stores and restaurants.Just walk outside with them until they’ve calmed down. That’s a pretty easy solution.
Buying food that isn’t good.Yes, this is my responsibility also. But it surely annoys me when I’m ready to prepare a meal and realize I’ve purchased something that has an expired date on it. With some items, it doesn’t really matter, but with meat, milk - dairy products - it does. I think the markets should try a little harder to be sure they’re not stocking the shelves with bad foods. I was going to fix something the other night and discovered that the potatoes I bought were rotten inside, the cheese was turning green and the onions and pineapple were also rotten. This all happened in one day. I had been in a hurry going through the market.
I decided to take the foods back - and was told Ineeded a receipt. I hadn’t bothered saving receipts from the market before.
I did come to the conclusion that too many items being bad from one shopping trip was an inconvenience and also a way of telling me that I needed to change markets.
Playing music too loud and car stereosThat word “inconsiderate” pops up again on this one. If your music is making my walls vibrate and it’s almost hurting my chest with the ‘thumping’, then I’d say it’s too loud. I live in a single, unattached dwelling - no connecting walls, and I don’t hear anything but the bass.
One example - the neighbors are getting ready to take their boat out for the day - and have wrongly assumed that everyone else in the neighborhood has gotten up at 5am on a Sunday morning.
These people with humongous speaker systems in their cars must have an idea that perhaps they’re annoying all around them with their loud music? It’s as irritating at a traffic signal as it is when they’re stopped in front of a residence. Can they hear emergency vehicle sirens over the loud music? I’m curious. And will this mean that many in this generation will be deaf later in life?
Anyone who lives in the United States but doesn’t try to learn EnglishI’ve lived in the U.S. most of my life. I speak English. I was always under the impression that English was the primary language here.
I think that if someone wants to stay in the U.S., they learn English. If they think it’s a real struggle to learn the language, I go through a similar struggle trying to communicate with someone who can’t speak English. Why should I be the responsible one?
I really admire those who do try to learn to speak English. I was in the bank the other day and noticed that two guys behind me were speaking Spanish, the guy in front of me was speaking Spanish, the teller and a customer were speaking Spanish, and a little boy was speaking to his mother --- in Spanish. Here I was in a foreign land without leaving the country. I was 3 miles from home, and I couldn't understand one person around me. Scary.
Pant crotches down below the kneesI know it's the style, but I like my men to walk like a man, not a penguin. I think this is a young person thing. I know when I was a teenager with ratted hair that took a can of hair spray to give it that "cotton candy" look, darkly-lined eyes and white lipstick, my parents and their friends would criticize me and tell me how ridiculous I looked. I knew I looked just like everyone else I knew so they were the ones with the problem, not I. At least I could walk without it looking like my pants were full of something.
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